Xbox

What is Xbox?

Xbox is a gaming console from Microsoft with access to online multiplayer through Xbox Live, a large game library via Game Pass, messaging, voice chat, streaming and game clip sharing. It is both a gaming platform and a social network.

Age rating: Varies by game (PEGI 3–18 / ESRB E–M).

Why do kids like it?

• Playing with friends. Online multiplayer makes it easy to play together, even when they’re not in the same place.
• Huge game library. Game Pass provides access to hundreds of games for a monthly fee.
• Social features. Friends lists, messaging, voice chat and the ability to share game clips make it a social experience.
• Achievements. Children enjoy collecting achievements and comparing with friends.
• Game Pass is good value. Access to many games without buying each one individually.

What are the real risks?

• Voice and text chat with strangers in multiplayer. Many online games connect your child with random players who may use inappropriate language or behave in threatening ways.
• Direct messages. Anyone can send messages unless the settings are restricted.
• Profile visibility. Default settings may show real-time status, game history and profile information to everyone.
• Game clips can reveal personal information. Gamertag, voice and even background sounds can be shared unintentionally.
• In-game purchases. Microtransactions are common in many games, and the costs can add up.
• Online multiplayer in mature-rated games. Children may find ways to play games intended for older audiences if content filters are not set up.
• Streaming to others. Xbox can be used to stream gameplay, potentially exposing your child to an audience.

Settings to check

1. Xbox Family Settings app: Download the app on your phone. From here you can manage all settings for your child’s account.
2. Set up a child account with age-appropriate content limits: Use your child’s real age for automatic restrictions based on game ratings.
3. Communication limits: Set to “Friends only” to prevent voice and text chat with strangers.
4. Privacy settings: Restrict who can see profile, online presence and game history.
5. Purchase approval and spending limits: Require approval for all purchases, and set a spending cap.
6. Screen time limits: Set daily time limits for gaming.
7. Content filters for games by rating: Block games that exceed your child’s age rating.

How to talk about it

“Who’s on your Xbox friends list? Are they people you know from school, or people you’ve met online?”

“Do you chat with people you don’t know when you’re playing? Has anyone ever said anything uncomfortable?”

“What games do you play online? Are there any games you’re not sure are meant for your age?”

“Have you ever shared anything personal — like your name, school or where you live — with someone in a game?”

Last reviewed: March 2026