TikTok

What is TikTok?

TikTok is a video platform built around the personalised For You feed, search, Following feeds, video creation, comments, Duets, Stitches, direct messages, and LIVE. Recommendations use signals such as interactions and content information, which can make feeds differ substantially between accounts.

Age limit: TikTok generally requires users to be at least 13, subject to local rules and separate experiences in some markets.

Accounts aged 13–15 are private by default. Direct messages require age 16, while hosting LIVE and sending Gifts during LIVE require age 18; feature availability also varies by country.

TikTok also requires creators to label realistic AI-generated content and may add labels automatically when supported content credentials or other signals are detected.

Why do kids like it?

What are the real risks?

Settings to check

  1. Check account privacy: Open Profile → ☰ → Settings and privacy → Privacy → Private account, and confirm the choice shown for the teen’s age. Accounts aged 13–15 are private by default.
  2. Review interaction controls: Open Profile → ☰ → Settings and privacy → Privacy, and check comments, mentions, tags, Duet, Stitch, downloads, and account suggestions. Available options vary by age.
  3. Review direct messages where eligible: Open Profile → ☰ → Settings and privacy → Privacy → Direct messages, and choose who may send requests or messages. Direct messages are unavailable below age 16.
  4. Connect Family Pairing: Open Profile → ☰ → Settings and privacy → Family Pairing on both accounts, link parent and teen, and review the controls provided for time, content, search, privacy, and messaging.
  5. Review screen time: Open Profile → ☰ → Settings and privacy → Screen time, and check daily limits, breaks, sleep reminders, and the dashboard. Defaults and choices vary by age and Family Pairing.
  6. Check AI labels before sharing: Open the post options for realistic AI-generated or significantly AI-edited content, turn on the AI-generated label where required, and review any automatic label before publishing.

How to talk about it

“What signals do you think tell TikTok to show you more or less of something?”

“Which settings make it easier for TikTok to feel like your space rather than a public stage?”

“How do you decide whether a video is real, edited, AI-generated, or still uncertain?”

Last reviewed: September 2026

Sources and references

  1. TikTok Accessed Region: Countries outside region-specific terms; local age rules apply
  2. TikTok Support Accessed Region: Global; defaults and available settings vary by age
  3. TikTok Support Accessed Region: Global; direct messages require age 16
  4. TikTok Support Accessed Region: LIVE and Gifts availability varies; age 18 minimum
  5. TikTok Support Accessed Region: Global; controls vary by age and feature availability
  6. TikTok Support Accessed Region: Global; automatic labels depend on supported signals